Wow... It's been awhile huh?

Sorry for the delay. I apologize for being a bad blogger.

So anyway, I am disgusted by how many married couples seem to hate each other. I am totally in no rush to get married what so ever, but this just makes me think why? Besides the tax break and the financial positives if your husband/wife dies and you are automatically granted their life insurance check (which is a tragedy and I wish on no one, but still an upside if it does happen at least you're entitled "on paper")... why else get married if everyone is so miserable?

Many of the married couples I work with just seem entirely disgusted with each other. In meetings when one has to leave early (usually the husband), they shake hands and thank everyone in the meeting saying their good-byes, except they always seem to forget to even acknowledge their wives... ??? WTF is that? And their wives are always meek little mouses and seem so suppressed as women.

Don't take that the wrong way, I'm not necessarily all for the womens' progressive movement and all that shit. Lord knows if I was financially supported and didn't have to work all the time I would go for it, but unfortunately in today's world most aren't so lucky. I would love to clean the house and work  in the garden and have dinner ready on the table at exactly 6 o'clock right when my husband walked through the door. I would love to volunteer and be some chairwoman on some board doing important great things. But in reality that probably won't ever happen. The weird part is, all these almost non-existent women aren't employed.

I just don't understand where the hatred comes from and how they remain still together...??? Just something to ponder about I guess. And I also am in no way promoting divorce... I just don't understand why there is absolutely no effort to fix what's broken rather than just settle and say it is what it is...

Anyway, I guess the moral of the story is to always love the one you choose and never let yourself forget why.

Sorry to get all mushy but we all need to slow the hell down once in awhile and stop and smell the roses.